1. Homophobia forces us to act "macho" if we are a man or "feminine" if we
are a woman. This limits our individuality and self-expression.
2. Homophobia puts pressure on straight people to act aggressively and
angrily towards LGBTQ people.
3. Homophobia makes it hard to be close friends with someone of the same
sex.
4. Homophobia often strains family and community relationships.
5. Homophobia causes youth to become sexually active before they are ready
in order to prove they are "normal." This can lead to an increase
in unwanted pregnancies and STDs.
6. Homophobia prevents vital information on sex and sexuality to be taught
in schools. Without this information, youth are putting themselves
at a greater risk for HIV and other STDs.
7. Homophobia can be used to hurt a straight person if they "appear to be
gay."
8. Homophobia makes it hard for straight people and LGBTQ people to be
friends.
9. Homophobia along with racism, sexism, classism, etc. makes it hard to
put an end to AIDS.
10. Homophobia makes it hard to appreciate true diversity and the unique
traits that are not mainstream or "normal."
For more info, see Homophobia: How We All Pay the Price, edited by Warren J. Blumenfeld, Boston: Beacon Press: 1992.
"HOMOWORK": WAYS TO FIGHT HOMOPHOBIA AS A STRAIGHT ALLY
1. Organize discussion groups in class or after school to talk about the
"Ten Ways Homophobia Affects Straight People."
2. Always use neutral labels like "partner" or "significant other" instead
of "boyfriend," "girlfriend," etc. when writing papers or talking to
others.
3. Bring up LGBTQ issues in conversations with friends or discussions in
class.
4. Interrupt anti-LGBTQ jokes, comments or any other behaviors that make
homophobia appear OK.
5. Put LGBTQ-positive posters in the halls and classrooms or wear shirts,
buttons, etc. that promote tolerance.
6. Don't make assumptions about peoples' sexual orientations or gender
identities. Assume there are LGBTQ people in all classes, sports,
meetings, daily life, etc.
7. Don't assume that "feminine-acting men" and "masculine-acting women" are
not heterosexual.
8. Don't assume that "macho males" or "feminine females" are heterosexual.
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